How should churches walk with repentant post-abortive parents?
Churches must lead with the gospel, assuring repentant parents that Christ’s blood truly cleanses every sin. Pair that hope with patient discipleship, biblical counseling, and intergenerational fellowship that refuses to stigmatize the forgiven. As the body bears their burdens, the repentant can heal, testify, and join the mission to protect other families.
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