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In the Category: Pastoral

#4 How should Christians respond to rape and abortion? Rape is evil, and those who commit it must face justice (Deuteronomy 22:25–27). But abortion does not bring justice. It takes the life of an innocent child. The child is not guilty of the father’s cri...
#5 Can abortion be forgiven? Yes. Christ's atonement is sufficient for every sin of His people, including abortion. Abortion is a grave sin, but Christ’s grace is greater (1 John 1:7–9). Anyone who has participated in abortion—wh...
#8 What about ectopic pregnancy? Ectopic pregnancy is a tragic and rare condition where the embryo implants outside the womb. In most cases, the baby cannot survive. But it's not medically necessary to immediately remove the baby! Ab...
#11 How should we care for post-abortive women? Women who have had abortions need both truth and grace. We must never lessen the evil of what abortion is. To do so would dishonor God and offer false comfort. Abortion is the taking of an innocent li...
#20 How can churches support women with high-risk pregnancies? The church should bear burdens practically (Galatians 6:2): meals, transport, childcare, housing, medical costs. By pairing families with deacons for ongoing care, churches provide a place where mothe...
#22 What does the Bible teach about fathers protecting preborn children? Fathers are charged to protect and provide (Ephesians 6:4; 1 Timothy 5:8). Scripture calls men to defend the weak (Psalm 82:3) and to love their wives as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Allo...
#25 How should Christian couples respond to a prenatal diagnosis of disability? Every child, able or disabled, is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Killing a child for disability is partiality and murder (James 2:1; Exodus 20:13). Trust God, seek wise medical care, g...
#30 What is the church's role in post-abortion discipleship for men? Men who participated in abortion need conviction, repentance, and restoration. Churches must preach law and gospel, call sin what it is, and offer Christ's full forgiveness (Isaiah 1:18). Assign matur...
#34 How can pastors counsel survivors of coerced abortion? Pastors must approach this issue with both truth and tenderness—refusing to flatten the moral reality of abortion while also recognizing the real suffering many women have endured. 1. Start with caref...
#39 How can deacons organize mercy ministry for single mothers? Deacons can organize mercy ministry for single mothers by meeting their physical and spiritual needs through coordinated, gospel-centered care. They should first assess needs within the church, mobili...
#40 What scriptures address the value of children conceived in rape? Scripture affirms every child as God's handiwork (Psalm 139:13-16). The child is not punished for the father's sin (Ezekiel 18:20). Christ welcomed little ones without distinction (Mark 10:14). Justic...
#43 What steps should fathers take when mothers consider abortion? Repent of passivity; lovingly plead for the child's life; provide tangible support and protection; involve church shepherds; seek just legal recourse if needed. Fathers must reflect Christ's sacrifici...
#49 How should church discipline address members who advocate for abortion? Christ has given the keys to the church to guard the gospel and the flock (Matthew 18:15; 1 Corinthians 5). If a member advocates for abortion, elders must warn, instruct, and call to repentance. Pers...
#50 How can Christian families plan to stand with mothers in unplanned pregnancies? Families can choose hospitality ahead of time: set aside budget, bedrooms, meals, and time to help mothers in crisis (Galatians 6:2). Coordinate with your elders so care is shepherded, not solo. Trust...
#55 How can churches disciple youth for abolition? Disciple teenagers with Scripture’s view of life, sin, and the cross. Walk through Proverbs 24:11-12, Psalm 139, and Luke 1 so they see God’s heart. Train them in prayer, mercy, and courage, paired wi...

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